Overcoming Break Up Pain by Staying Strong

Tips on Overcoming Your Break Up
by Alyssa Villame

Breakups are really hard to handle. But who says everything must end together with the failed relationship?

Life is still full of surprises. All you need to do is stay strong in order to get yourself back on track. Below are ways on how to stand up after falling.



1. Move on. Do everything you can to move on. Try to find yourself the same - the person you once were. Look for people whom you can lean on and can give you advice. Get support from your friends and family to help you overcome your loneliness. The more you voice out your hurt the better you will be able to cope up with the break up.



2. Remind yourself that you still have your future. After a sore day is another day that is way better. Think of the definite and understand that everything happens for a reason. See the situation as another step towards finding the right person or the right love for you.

3. Give time to yourself. Give yourself extra second to be healed. Just think that every wound is curable. That it will gradually leave you alone.

4. Have some hobby. Engage yourself to something that may need on heavy hand. You may read books, watch TV or movie or even go outside to watch on big screen. Use that time to entertain yourself. Also you can use your time to learn some other languages. By keeping your mind busy, you are helping yourself forget and cope up with the break up.

5. Keep in touch with your family. The love of your family never fades. They are always there for you --- in bad times and especially in good times. You can express your sorrow to your family and friends. Count them to help you renew your emotion, because of your break up.

6. Allowing yourself to heal. Learn from your past relationship. Do not instantly involve yourself to a new relationship. Do not use that person to fill in the empty space in your heart that was brought about by the breakup.

Handle your break up maturely. Accept that it happened and extract all the lessons from it to make yourself better.

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